看了 心灵捕手

匆匆看完了 心灵捕手 （http://www.douban.com/subject/1292656/），很久没有看到这样能对心灵有些触动的影片了。心灵、生活、友情、爱情，都是这一段时间经常思考和需要思考的东西。特别是sean对will说的一段话：

（爱情）

So if I asked you about art, you'd probably give me the skinny on ever art book ever written. Michelangelo, you know a lot about him, life's work, political aspirations, him and the pope, sexual orientations, the whole works, right? I bet you can't tell me what smells like in the Sistine Chapel. You never actually stood there and looked up at that beautiful ceiling.Seeing that. 尚恩：我若跟你谈美术，你只能引用美术专著空谈理论，例如米开朗基罗Michelangelo。你对他知之甚详吧？他毕生忠于艺术，满腔政治热诚，与教皇相交莫逆，性倾向，你一定对他很了解吧，但你连梵蒂冈的气味都没有闻过。你从来没有试过站在那儿，昂首眺望天花板上的名画吧。仔细的品味。
If I ask you about women, you probably give a syllabus of your personal favorites. You may have even been laid a few times. But you can't tell me what it feels like to wake up next to a woman and feel truly happy. 如果我想你谈及女人，你大可以向我如数家珍你可能get laid次数不太少。但你没法说出单你在一个你深爱的女人身边醒来时，那份内心的真正幸福感！

You are a tough kid. I ask you about war, you'd probably throw Shakespeare at me, right? "Once more into the breach, dear friends." But you've never been near one. You've never held your best friend's head in your lap and watch him gasp his last breath looking to you for help. 你年轻飘悍，如果我想和你谈及战争，你会向我引用莎士比亚，朗诵莎翁描述战争的名句对白"Once more into the breach, dear friends."。可是你从未亲临战阵，未试过把挚友的头拥入怀里，看着他喘着最后一口气，凝望着你，向你求助。

If I ask you about love, you'd probably quote me a sonnet, but you've never looked at a woman and been totally vulnerable, known someone that could level you with her eyes, feeling like God put an angel on Earth just for you, who could rescue you from the depths of hell. And you wouldn't know what it's like to be her angel, to have that love for her be there forever, through anything, through cancer. 我问你何谓爱情，你可能只会吟风弄月，说上几句14行诗，但你从未试过全情投入真心变得脆弱，四目交投时彼此了解对方的心，就好比上帝安排天使下凡只献给你一样，把你从地狱深渊里拯救出来。你也未试过对她百般关怀的感受，你也未试过对她情深款款矢志厮守，明知她患了绝症也在所不惜。

You wouldn't know about sleeping sitting
up in a hospital room for two months
holding her hand and not leaving because
the doctors could see in your eyes
that the term "visiting hours" didn't
apply to you. And you wouldn't know
about real loss, because that only
occurs when you lose something you
love more than yourself, and you've
never dared to love anything that much.
I look at you and I don't see an
intelligent confident man, I don't see
a peer, and I don't see my equal. I
see a boy.

还有：
（友情）
Ben Afflec对Matt Damon说的：
"Everytime I came by your house and pick you up,we go out, we have a few drinks and a few laughs and it's great. Know what the best part of my day is? The 10seconds from when I pull up to when I get to your door. I think may be I'll get up there, knock on the door and you won't be there. No"Goodbye", no "See you later", no nothing. You just go."

爱对方胜过爱自己

有很多话想写，却不知道从哪里开始，可能主要是因为自己不擅长将心里所想的说出来，有不能静下心来思考以及其他的原因吧。但是这里的（http: //www.douban.com/subject/1292656/）一些评论有一些说出了一些我想说的的，特别是thisyear,10号等的评论。

还喜欢这个（http://www.douban.com/subject/discussion/1080227/）。喜欢那样的简简单单。